NOT YOUR PERSONALITY
FREE self-led experience + integration workbook
For leaders outgrowing old identities, old labels, and old survival patterns
(& Ready to lead from rooted self-leadership instead of younger parts)
Let’s be honest.
You don’t want to “be more resilient.”
You want your body to stop bracing for impact.
You don’t need another mindset hack.
You need to stop abandoning yourself
in that 0.3-second freeze when someone asks you what you really want.
You’re not lacking discipline.
You’re carrying old identities you’ve outgrown
and they’re quietly running your decisions, your money, your love life, your voice.
This experience helps you drop the identity,
meet the part underneath,
and lead from your FULLY EXPRESSED most POWERFUL self right now
If you’re reading this… you’re probably this kind of leader:
You’ve done therapy, EMDR, somatics, breathwork, coaching, shadow work, and plant medicine.
You have certifications for days.
You’ve helped other people transform.
And yet…
Here are the places you still get stuck:
You’re successful… but still keep a backup client/job/relationship “just in case.”
Your nervous system doesn’t believe it’s safe to fully choose what you want.
Your income climbs… then drops right back to the old baseline.
That’s not laziness. That’s a younger part scared of being visible or chosen.
You KNOW what you want to say… but your Perfectionist Part clamps your throat shut.
So you edit the damn email 18 times.
Or stay quiet.
Or shrink your genius to keep the peace.
You’re dating intentionally… but texting someone you outgrew because the void feels too loud.
Classic backup plan nervous system.
Classic disorganized attachment strategy.
You’ve been sober-curious (or fully sober)… and still hear that part whisper:
“You’re an addict… be careful… stay small.”
You can articulate your trauma perfectly…
But your body still tightens when you tell the truth.**
Because the younger part inside still equates truth with danger.
This is for the leader who’s DONE letting younger parts run their life.
Inside the Free Not Your Personality Experience
This isn’t a mindset.
This is Regroovin’™ in real time — meeting the actual part running the pattern.
1. Name the identity you’ve been moving through the world with.
The ones that were once protection:
“Problem child”
“Addict”
“Too much”
“Too sensitive”
“Not enough”
“Good girl / Nice guy”
“The strong one”
“The provider”
“The overachiever”
“The lone wolf”
“The slut / the prude”
Some of these fall off easily.
Some cling because they believe they’re keeping you alive.
You’ll learn the difference.
2. Meet the younger part actually driving your current pattern.
The one responsible for:
✔ your income rubber-banding
✔ the backup plan
✔ fear of disappointing others
✔ the freeze before truth
✔ perfectionism
✔ inability to rest
✔ late-night spiraling
✔ “I know better, why do I still do this?” loops
This isn’t sabotage.
It’s protection.
And protection softens the second you meet the part with leadership.
3. Learn the Hope vs Faith teaching that everyone talks about after.
Hope = fantasy in your mind.
It feels good… until it collapses.
Faith = rooted, expansive capacity in your body.
You can feel the difference instantly.
One keeps you spinning.
One puts you in the driver’s seat of your actual life
4. Walk away with rooted self-leadership.
Not perfect.
Not “fixed.”
Just resourced enough that your adult self is the one steering:
✔ Truth without fawning
✔ Boundaries without guilt
✔ Creativity without collapse
✔ Decisions without overthinking
✔ Forward movement without losing yourself
This is where your next chapter begins.
This is for you if…
You’re a leader who is DONE with self-development fatigue
and ready to quit outsourcing your power
to the part of you that formed at 7, 14, or 22.
If you’ve ever thought:
“I’ve outgrown this version of me…
why is it still running my life?”
This is your portal.
Get the Not Your Personality Experience + Integration Workbook
Free. Instant access. Zero fluff.
👇 Enter your email to receive:
💫 The full workshop replay
💫 The integration workbook
💫 The Labels & Identity Exercise
💫 Hope vs Faith: mind vs body
💫 A clear path back to grounded self-leadership
A note from Amy 💖
You don’t need to fix yourself.
You need to meet yourself —
The younger parts, the old identities, the survival strategies are still running your show.
Once they feel your leadership,
Your clarity returns,
Your timeline accelerates,
And your gifts stop getting blocked.
This is the beginning of Regroovin’™ —
where your body becomes the safest place to build your future