NOT YOUR
PERSONALITY
How to Stop Letting Labels Define Who You Are
ADHD. Anxious. Perfectionist. Caregiver. Projector. MG. Sober. Monogamous. Complex PTSD survivor. Poly. Gay. Cis. Divorced. Addict. Empath. Codependent. Highly sensitive. Avoidant. Secure. Enabler. Black sheep. Overachiever. People pleaser.
THE THRESHOLD
At some point, you meet the threshold -that moment where hiding, shrinking, and “playing it safe” stops protecting you and starts betraying you. Those labels? They may have given you language, but they also became the box you learned to live in.
“I’m just anxious.”
“I’m a perfectionist, I can’t help it.”
“That’s my ADHD brain.”
“I’m codependent, it’s who I am.”But here’s the truth: staying small and putting yourself in a box is the most dangerous move of all.
Why?
Because those boxes might feel safe, yet they’re built out of subtle shame, fear, and other people’s expectations.
Because every time you shrink, you trade your power for approval you don’t even want.
Because the cost of playing small isn’t just missed opportunities—it’s your intimacy, your freedom, your joy.
Because hiding doesn’t actually protect you, it just guarantees you’ll never feel fully alive.
THE TRUTH
Guilt. Shame. Labels. Embarrassment. Self-sabotage.This is the truth: they’re not quirks, they’re not “just who you are.”
They creep in quietly.
They clench your jaw.
They tighten your chest.And before you know it, they’re everywhere
in your bedroom with your lover
in your Amazon cart at 2am
in your boardrooms and client calls
in the way you discipline your childrenThis free ROOTS event is where you flip the script
rewiring your nervous system into truth, authority, and freedom you can actually feel in your body.
THE WORK
Inside, you’ll:
Call shame out of the shadows and into the light
Interrupt guilt before it hijacks your voice again
Stop over-identifying with
labels + conditions that box you in
Experience what it feels
like to stand in authority not apology Feel yourself bust out of every tight box—into a giant, multidimensional transformer walking in your power: expansive, unapologetic, magnetic, fully expressed, and building a legacy rooted in self-trust + freedom.
THE REALITY
Here’s the deal:
If you don’t face this threshold, some version of imposter syndrome will keep running your life.It shows up everywhere when you swallow your desire
instead of saying what you want in bed
when you undercharge a
client and call it being “reasonable”
when you scroll Amazon looking for a quick dopamine hit to soothe the ache
when you snap at your kids because you’re carrying shame you never chose to process
when you nod in meetings while your gut is screaming say somethingBut when you take responsibility
you stop living fragmented and
finally live visible, fully expressed, powerful.It’s not too late.
Now is the time to step
across the threshold and
REMEMBER your authority,
your power, claim your ROOTS
THE STEP
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Zoom (free)
RSVP now [insert button/link]The world doesn’t reward hesitation.
It rewards the ones who stop playing small, claim their power, and never look back.
This is your step.